Journeys In Waldorf Education – The Root Is Love by Carrie Dendtler

It is becoming more apparent that a lot of people are beginning to question the public school system and whether the effects of public schooling really are as beneficial as they had always believed them to be morally, academically and socially. Many people are turning to (or at least considering), homeschooling their children as a means to provide their child with what they need and what they feel is lacking in (or harming) their developing child. The reasons for choosing to homeschool are not just religious, or academic, the reasons are varied and unique to each family.


A small, but growing movement of education and homeschooling, one that really chooses to nurture the whole child, body, soul, and spirit, is the Waldorf homeschooling movement. Enriched with fairy tales and stories, hands-on learning and crafting, and infused with art, this approach to education is one that allows the child freedom to be and express the unique individual that they are, as well as teaches in a way that captivates the entire child, ensuring that what is taught impacts the child in such a way that it is never forgotten.


The Waldorf approach to educating our children is gaining more and more attention, as people are waking up to the outcome of pushing children too early in the realm of scientific thinking, academics, and finished concepts. Children are being forced to learn earlier and earlier and are being robbed of the kingdom of childhood and imagination early on in life. They are presented with fixed ideas about the world with no room left to think, discover, and create, thus leaving them without a clue as to how or who to be when they grow into adulthood. The effects of early acedemics are also having a physical impact as well, affecting our children physically, right down to their nervous system.

Waldorf education seeks to do things differently, treating the kingdom of childhood as sacred and recognizing that each child is an individual all the while endeavouring to educate children in a way that works for that individuality.


This week on the blog, I have planned a series on Waldorf homeschooling and have asked four Waldorf mothers and homeschoolers to each share a bit about their personal experience using the Waldorf education method with their children and in their home; what made them choose Waldorf and the benefits that they see it bringing to their lives.


Today I welcome Carrie to my space to share her thoughts on Waldorf education. Carrie Dendtler is a pediatric physical therapist, board-certified lactation consultant and Waldorf homeschooling mother of three children who will be entering eighth grade, fifth grade and kindergarten in the fall.  She completed her Foundation Studies in the Arts and Anthroposophy in 2013 and is author of The Parenting Passageway website.


A wise old owl sat in an oak,
The more he heard, the less he spoke;
The less he spoke, the more he heard;
Why aren’t we all like that wise old bird.

-Traditional Mother Goose Rhyme

I do not profess to be wise (nor old!), but as I head into my ninth year of Waldorf homeschooling, the sentiment of this rhyme resonates with me more and more. I used to feel as if I had pat and succinct answers for the questions families asked regarding Waldorf Education.  I could talk about the work of Rudolf Steiner, an Austrian philosopher, and his work into looking at the development of the spiritual human being throughout the lifespan.  I could talk about how Waldorf Education was a holistic method of education that  Rudolf Steiner helped to develop in order to address the head, heart and hands of the child.  I could talk about the eight artistic pillars of Waldorf education that works to develop the capacities of the child in a holistic manner that incorporates the art of speech, drama,  drawing, painting, modeling, singing and musical instruments, movement, and handwork.

I think once upon a time, if you had asked me why our family had chosen Waldorf homeschooling, I think I would have talked to you about the advantages of Waldorf homeschooling over a school setting. I think I would have talked about the appropriateness of the Waldorf curriculum for the holistic development of the child, and the academic rigor and well-roundedness that this curriculum could bring. I think today, after homeschooling our oldest child kindergarten years and now entering eighth grade, and homeschooling our middle child kindergarten years and now entering fifth grade, and with our youngest child getting ready to embark on one final kindergarten year, I would tell you that the root of Waldorf homeschooling is love.

It is not the pink bubble of kindergarten with the gnomes and fairies and goodness and reverence, although that is beautiful as well. It is not the feeling life of children in the grades, and the opportunity to present to them the beauty and love that is in the world, although that is wonderful as well. It is not the careful cultivation of truth and a feeling that the world can be met with courage and dignity for our teenager, although I am completely honored to be a part of that process.

No, I would tell you that the root of the Waldorf curriculum is love.

It can sound paradoxical when one hears that Waldorf Education is teacher-led, yet meets the child’s needs. It can sound oppositional to say that the Waldorf curriculum covers the archetypal journey of the human being, of all human beings, yet is completely about the individual child standing right in front of the parent-teacher. How can one work with these polarities? It is through the rich love of the parent. Love becomes the intermediary between these things, and crafts a curriculum in the home based upon who and what the parent is themselves. It calls for a rich inner spiritual life of the parent to teach.

So, I would say that the Waldorf curriculum is first and foremost about love. We teach our children so that in the end they will love and serve all of humanity with a sense of responsibility. They will be able to give and receive love. They will be a positive force in the world. These are the forces of the heart that stream through Waldorf Education.

Many blessings,



9 thoughts on “Journeys In Waldorf Education – The Root Is Love by Carrie Dendtler

  1. Pingback: The Root of Waldorf Homeschooling Is Love…. | The Parenting Passageway

  2. When I was a Waldorf student myself, I never thought about the curriculum, I just remember that it was fun and exciting to learn. I loved the diversity of the curriculum and its depth, albeit there were some subjects that I was just not good at, but I think that is independent of the curriculum. 🙂
    After looking at a diverse option of homeschooling possibilities it was an easy choice for me to come back to Waldorf education.
    Now that I am the teacher, I truly believe that it is the only type of education that asks of so much depth and reflection in a human being, appropriately fitting to the development of the student. It truly teaches the love of learning and the love of life.

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  3. Beautifully said, Carrie! I like to picture an image with a heart at the center of it all, representing Love first and foremost. Steiner said it all starts with love! And then the heart also represents the rhythm of the heartbeat, which is where it all begins, starting with Mama and provides a steady rhythm to ground us. I can so relate to what you say about once feeling as if you had simple answers for parents, but now there is more nuance, more variation, more depth. This Waldorf homeschooling is a dance for each of us and we as parents are unfolding as much as our children are!


  4. Yes, it is the transforming power of love that allows for growth and change! And specifically, I believe, the love that we choose to commit to out of freedom. This particularly allows us to grow and develop as human beings and to meet, understand and ultimately serve other human beings.

    Thanks so much for sharing this perspective on your vast and varied experiences.


  5. That’s a great reminder to all of us! I find myself often caught up in worrying about things….getting off track, not getting enough done, am I doing enough?… is such a wonderful reminder to remember that it’s all about love.


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